The Good That Men Do

It’s easy, during a week like this, to be horrified, to be sad, to be scared. It’s natural.

But it’s also easy, if you take a look–as many people are doing–at the other end of terror and tragedy.

There’s Jaimie Muehlenhausen, of California, and common sense mixed with foresight.

There’s the group of Boston College students who said, “We will walk to show that we decide when our marathon ends.

There’s Joe Andruzzi, Carlos Arredondo, the man with orange juice, the volunteer, the first responders, the woman who opened her doors, the volunteers who came back on Tuesday, the local businesses, the people who offered up their homes via Google Docs, the runners who kept running so they could donate blood.

Whether or not they’re entirely good, there’s Anonymous and their hacking of the Westboro Baptist Church Facebook page:

Westboro Baptist Church FB Hack

And there’s the very nature of Boston, as described by Dennis Lehane.

From a continent away, I had the same immediate reaction to Boston that I had to 9/11, and I described it on Facebook:

It’s indelicate, but nevertheless it is my first thought in these situations:

“F%@k those guys.”

I don’t know who they are, or what they want to accomplish, and it doesn’t matter. The very first reaction they get from me is anger.

Later on, when I think about it some more, I want to go home and hug my husband and daughter. But the first thing I do is get angry.

So bring on your terror. You may horrify me, but you don’t scare me.

They don’t scare Boston, either. Don’t let them scare you. Don’t let them limit you. Don’t fall for that.

They’re too small, and we’re too big.

Comments

10 responses to “The Good That Men Do”

  1. Debra Rutt (@TheHarriedMom) Avatar

    AMEN! They can’t scare me, they may make me more cautious, but we have to continue on and show them that we are brave and they WILL not kill our spirit!

    1. Tragic Sandwich Avatar
      Tragic Sandwich

      Absolutely.

      A few days after 9/11, my co-workers and I were taking our usual walk around the building after lunch. Someone said that people were going to be afraid to fly, and I said, “I’m not. I’d fly right now.” My boss said, “I don’t think you can. The planes are still grounded.” I responded, “And also I have to be at work today. But I would.”

  2. Jill Pinnella Corso Avatar

    Seriously, f*ck those guys.

    Thanks for bringing the bright side. I haven’t been focusing enough on that.

    1. Tragic Sandwich Avatar
      Tragic Sandwich

      I came across this, too–apparently some leading L.A.runners organized an impromptu marathon in honor of Boston: http://laist.com/2013/04/17/los_angeles_runs_for_boston_today.php

      1. Jill Pinnella Corso Avatar

        Wow, that’s crazy. Runners are crazy.

        1. Tragic Sandwich Avatar
          Tragic Sandwich

          But in such cool ways.

  3. Duffy Avatar

    Personally, I don’t think we should say fuck them. I think we should say, “May they never get fucked again.”

    1. Tragic Sandwich Avatar
      Tragic Sandwich

      I suspect that they weren’t anyhow.

  4. Lisa @ The Meaning of Me Avatar

    Thanks for the links – really good stuff.

    1. Tragic Sandwich Avatar
      Tragic Sandwich

      Thanks. It’s been a brutal week, and I figured other people could use them, too.